Everyone Lies
Lies, Lies! We ALL do it in one way or another. The differences [between lying and not lying] lie (pun intended) in the consequences of the lie, the recipient of…
To Yearn
Have you ever wanted something, or someone so badly that it created an actual pain in your stomach or chest? Of course... we all have. We'll call it "yearning" or…
Dishwashers don’t need
The dishwasher needs to be emptied. The school needs a new library. The car needs a tune-up. The sheets need changing. The city needs to raise taxes. Do they really?…
Gift Giving
I need to give a gift. They needs to receive my gift. Or do they...? You might wonder why I’m writing about such a “mundane” subject as gift giving. If…
Conflict of Needs
ALL … and I mean ALL conflict arises from a "CONFLICT of NEEDS". While this seems trite on the surface, I want each reader to remember the above key point. So the next…
Competition
Competition and the Need to Compete We would be hard-pressed to find a country or a culture anywhere on the planet that doesn't engage in some form of competition. And…
Entitlement
What does “entitlement” mean? Webster1 says: “...a belief that one is deserving… of certain privileges.” Or in the perspective of The Lowerarchy, the belief that one deserves to have their…
Unhealthy Needs
Unhealthy Needs (aka Dysfunctional1 Needs) … we all have them. If, based on my presumption that everything we say, everything we do, every choice we make is based on some…